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Using "The System" In School

be cool at school
Now here's a powerful concept to shatter all your fear and confusion about seeing her again before you call her. It is simply this: when you run into her again, before you've called her, don't put any pressure on yourself to excuse your lack of communication. Relax. Chill out. Be cool. Don't get all antsy and embarrassed. Realize that any discomfort you feel is self-inflicted. It's totally okay if she sees you again before you call her. Let her see you four or five times before you call. No big deal.

Don't be afraid that she's going to think that you've rejected her. Why not? Because if she does think that, then it's only going to raise her Interest Level and make her extra cooperative when you do call her and ask her out. And once again, when you finally do call, make no excuses or explanations. Just make a date and then get off the phone. Badda bing, badda boom.

you'll raise her interest level
And here's another thought to help you appreciate why waiting a week to call is the right thing to do, even though you may run into her more than once in the interim. You can be certain that no other fellow has ever played it so cool with her and this will work to your advantage. She'll be thinking, "Gee, every other guy from my classes that I've given my number to has called me the next day. What's this Rocky guy's story? Hmm, I'm intrigued. I think I'll have to raise my Interest Level in him."

As for the other gal you're working on, if the weeks keep going by and she just doesn't make a move to connect with you, then go on ahead and take the initiative. The idea, Rocky, is that in this specialized situation, you bide your time and give her an abundance of opportunities to close you, but you most ultimately do the closing if she doesn't.

Remember guys; always ask for the home phone number and always wait a week to call.


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